{OUR LOVE STORY}

         

(ABOVE IMAGES ARE DONE BY JUSTIN FERRY PHOTOGRAPHY)

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THIS WHOLE THING STARTED…..

in a middle school Bible study. Yes, really. In 8th grade, I met together with a bunch of other girls my same age through the church we were currently involved in. We were going through a chapter each time we met, and this particular chapter focused on dating. I honestly don’t remember much about anything except for the fact that we were supposed to make a list of everything we wanted in a husband. The goal was to save yourself some heartache, and only consider dating someone who had these characteristics. Obviously he needed to love Jesus and love people….but things like “a good listener,” “outgoing,” etc. (you get the idea) were on my list.

So I took a good look around at every guy in my life…and there was not a single guy to be found that was even close to what I wanted.

Then I started high school……and it was the same thing (this sounds harsh, but I am just being honest).

After a while, I got discouraged (because remember, High School is the only world you know when you’re in it….). My standards were high, very high. People called me crazy, but I was determined to wait for this future guy. In the middle of my sophomore year (2009), I started going to a church called Clover Hill Assembly of God. There, I saw several guys my age, and one of them specifically was Nathan Clarke. In a not-so-creepy way…(haha), I noticed the way he treated people, the way he carried himself, his pretty blue eyes, and a million other things that caught my attention. To my dismay, we never really became friends despite how often we were with each other at Youth Group serving on the student-leadership team.

This went on for about a year. A year of tears of “what’s wrong with him?!,” “what’s wrong with me?,”  and “why  won’t he talk to me?!”  (I’m all about the guy pursuing the girl type thing, so I was set on waiting) But in this season, my relationship with God became incredibly strong and I learned to surrender my whole life to Him through His amazing grace. I became content with who he created me to be, and I found my identity in Him. (Looking back, I knew why it took so long….God needed to shape me first before we ever came together!)

After a year (Around January of 2010- the second semester of my junior year of high school), I just kind of started giving up because nothing was changing. I had prayed for this guy. He fit everything on my “infinite list.” I prayed for him, I prayed for me, and I prayed for God’s hand in what could be..just maybe? possibly? At this point, I honestly just wanted to be his friend. I looked up to him so much, and I wanted to be more like him. He loved on every person he met, he respected ladies, he wasn’t a weird Christian guy like many I had met before, and I especially loved how God used him at Manchester High School to reach out to his fellow classmates and teammates on the Cross Country Team. I wasn’t really bold about my walk with Jesus. But he was, and I wanted to learn from him.

Mind you, I haven’t really told anyone about this at all. I didn’t want anyone to make a big deal over something that was non-existent. So there you go. I ended up finishing my junior year and I started preparing to go on a missions trip to Sitka, Alaska that July (of 2010).

The week before the missions trip, all the youth leaders went out to eat on a Wednesday night after youth group. My youth pastor, Pastor Erik leans over across the table from me, looks both ways, smiles, and then looks at me saying “Hey Anna, what if I told you I had the perfect guy picked out for you?”

I look around with the kind of look saying ,”You talkin’ to me?” My first thoughts: “Um, you are my youth pastor. This is weird. But on a second note, ‘WHO?!'”

Pastor Erik looks over and whispers, “Nate Clarke!”

(I’m surprised I didn’t just fall on the floor out of my chair and pass out right there. Dramatic much? Yeah, I know, but this was the craziest thing of my life at this point. I mean hey, I really liked this kid.)

It turns out that Pastor Erik had gone up to Nathan’s parents that past January saying that he had the perfect girl picked out for their son and he asked permission to see if he could talk to Nate about it. They said that was fine and that they trusted him.

So over the course of those 6 or 7 months, apparently Pastor Erik pestered Nathan to talk to me, ask me out, whatever. I found out later that Nathan had thought I was in my early 20’s this whole time (face palm), which is part of the reason why he didn’t even think twice about me. But apparently, Nathan started getting interested. And then he started praying about me too.

Fast – Forward back to the week before leaving to Alaska at the Chili’s Restaurant, I am being told all this, and  I am starting to put pieces together. All those prayers I had prayed, God had been working behind the scenes the entire time.

The following week, we head off to Alaska. I could save that for a whole other story (because it was AMAZING). But apparently, our plane tickets were alphabetized: Clementson….Clarke. Guess who I’m sitting next to for the next 4 hours?

Yep! By the time we got to Alaska, pretty much everyone found out about this ordeal and you can just guess about the rest.

(THE CLOVER HILL TEAM IN SITKA, ALASKA)

After we flew home from that incredible week, Nathan and I talked a bit and hung out a few times for a couple weeks. I always let him ask, plan, and initiate. I thought, hey, if I waited for a year for this, I think I can manage waiting a couple days in between seeing him. Our first date ended up being Putt-Putt and Chik-fil-a. Oh yeah! A way to win my heart is through some Chik-fil-a Chicken (no, but really..it’s my favorite). About a week or so after that, he asked me if I wanted to go to Sunday Park to go on a walk. (A park within walking distance from my house with a lake, biking trails, trees, etc.).

(SUNDAY PARK)

We talked about school, our goals, what our families were like, and all of the basics. Then we stopped by the dock, walked to the end, sat down and dangled our feet in the water.

We said a few more words but then he paused,  looked down at me and said, “So, what do you think about dating?”

We probably talked no more than 15 minutes about it all, but in that conversation, we explained what we each thought what a godly relationship looked like. We knew we were both interested in each other, but we left the conversation with Nathan saying, “Let’s take this slow, I don’t want to rush into anything” I agreed.

Well, soon after, on August 21, 2010 he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I said yes.

And 3 months later, we knew we wanted to get married.

Slow, eh?

It did not take us long to become best friends- and we literally talked about EVERYTHING. Waiting for him was so worth it. And on a side note, that list I made back in 8th grade doesn’t even do him justice. He is more than I could have ever, ever asked for. He respected me, he went out of his way for me, he listened to my thoughts, he took me out on dates,  he challenged me in my relationship with Jesus, and he constantly encouraged me in everything I did.

Entering into our Senior Year of High School in 2010 (Nathan at Manchester, me at Clover Hill), we had both been accepted into Liberty University and were planning to attend the following year. We both knew we were called to Ministry, and we both continued to serve in our Youth Group. This time, together. After we both graduated from our high schools in June 2011, we started getting ready for college life.

                                                          

(NATHAN & I ON HIS GRADUATION DAY)

Soon we were off to LU. We loved the school, the people, the professors, convocation, dorm life, everything. Sure, not everything was perfect (what is?), but we loved being at school together away from home.

(THE BEAUTIFUL PLACE ON CAMPUS WERE WE OFTEN SPENT TIME TOGETHER)

Halfway through my semester- long story short, I realized and confirmed that I would not be returning to LU after my freshman year for financial reasons. At first, this was very hard to take in and extremely frustrating. All of “my plans” of becoming a RA one day and meeting new people every year, had come to an end. But God had another plan. And slowly, my heart became more accepting of what He had for me. By the time my freshman year was coming to a close, it didn’t matter if I had all the money in the world, I was ready for the new season. It was a peace I couldn’t describe and I was excited for what was next!

At this point, we had briefly talked with our parents about marriage. We valued having both sets of parents actively involved in our relationship. In addition, we had our pastors and mentors, close friends, and even people we didn’t even know that well constantly encouraging us.

After a few talks, my Mom and Dad said that 2 things had to happen before we could ever get married:

1) Nathan had to have a full-time job

2) He had to Graduate from College with his Bachelor’s degree

The next conversation I had with my parents was with me telling them that Nathan was going to take summer classes in addition to working part time, and then take 18 credits per semester so that he could graduate 3 semesters early. (I have a hard-working and determined man!!)

With that said, Nathan, however was going to continue at LU in the Fall of 2012 while I would stay home and finish my degree through LU’s Online program. We spent our Summer together and then we prepared for him to leave

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(OUR LAST DATE BEFORE HE LEFT FOR LU AGAIN)

That semester apart was hard. Even though we both learned a lot, we hated being apart. We knew of many people that had gone WAY longer apart under much more difficult circumstances, but still- we didn’t like being a part one bit! (Granted, he would often come home every 2 weeks with surprise visits).

(WHEN HE CAME HOME FOR HIS THANKSGIVING BREAK)

Near the end of both of our Fall 2012 School Semesters, Nathan came in touch with a pastor named Pastor Bryan from Destination Church. Destination had launched 2 years prior and had been (and still is) growing rapidly. They meet in the theaters at SouthPark Mall in Colonial Heights, VA. We both knew Pastor Bryan before because Clover Hill Assembly of God (the church Nathan and I met at and served) helped launch this church. We had visited Destination a few times before, but never really had any idea that we would soon attend and serve there. So Over the course of those 2 years, Destination had grown to about 1,200 people. The vision to start an additional campus was coming closer and becoming more of a reality at this point. Pastor Bryan mentioned that he would love for Nathan to be on their team.

(PEOPLE WAITING IN LINE FOR ONE OF THE SERVICES TO START ON A SUNDAY MORNING)

We talked about it. We prayed about it. We shared it with our families and close friends.  

And then we made the decision that we would start serving at Destination Church starting in January of 2013 with Nathan working part time there. This also meant Nathan was going to be staying home for good! He transferred online again (he had done LU Online during the previous summer)- but this time, it was going to be permanent!

And finally, during our winter break of 2012, On December 28th, Nathan got down on one knee, slipped a gorgeous ring on my finger and proposed.

“Anna Michelle Clementson, will you marry me?

And after I caught my breath I pulled him up where I was and just hugged him!

he said, “Is that a yes?”

I smiled ( with the biggest smile ever) and said “Yes, I will marry you!

             

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(THE DAY NATHAN PROPOSED IN THE MOUNTAINS IN LEXINGTON, VA)

He had asked my parents permission earlier that week and the day he proposed ended up being perfect. That whole week had been rainy, snowy, muddy, gross, and all of that. But he kept persisting that we go the mountains. And now I knew why!

We had waited so long for this! Because we both valued our parents being involved in our relationship and we wanted to honor their wishes, the process was much longer than we had hoped for originally, but it ended up being for the better. With the constant encouragement from our families, pastors, mentors and close friends, our relationship grew and we learned how to understand, love, and respect one another. We were (and are) so thankful for the influence each person had on our relationship. From the many phone calls and long conversations, we had reached this point because the of the support and investment of people in our lives as individuals and as a a couple. We were so thankful to FINALLY call each other our “fiance.” The light was at the end of the tunnel! 

Pretty soon, Destination Church bought the additional campus, the Crossings Theater in Hopewell.

It will be launching in September, 2013 with Nathan as the Campus Pastor of this Location. (2 locations, 1 Church) He officially starts full time in September and we could not feel more honored that we can be a part of what God is doing through this church!

(THE CROSSINGS CAMPUS “UNDER CONSTRUCTION”)

And now… Our 3 year anniversary was yesterday, August 21, 2013.

Nathan graduates at the end of this year with his Bachelors in Religion with a focus on Pastoral Leadership.

I am doing the “regular” 4 year plan and so I will be starting my junior year this fall.  I will be graduating in May of 2015 with my Bachelors of Religion with a double minor in Christian Counseling and Psychology.

As I write this, I am overwhelmed by God’s faithfulness and provision that has been so obvious with every transition of our young lives. From 8th grade to High School and from High School to Liberty University.  From Clover Hill Assembly of God to Destination Church. While coming together at a young age has had it’s challenges, we believe we are never too young for set the example and learn how to love each other the way God intended from the very beginning. Even though we didn’t know the timing of pretty much anything, we chose to trust the Lord with all that we did. Was it and is it hard? Yes! Was it and is it worth it? Yes, yes, and YES!

Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight. 

{PROVERBS 3:5-6}

So here we are. Our love story doesn’t really have an ending because it still goes on.

Every day we learn something new about each other

Every day we find a new reason why we love one another

And even when we say “I do” on May 17th, 2014, our love story will continue!

(ALL PHOTOGRAPHY BELOW HAS BEEN DONE BY JUSTIN FERRY PHOTOGRAPHY)

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{268 MORE DAYS UNTIL THE WEDDING!!!}

Detailed DIY Dying Glass Jars

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I am getting married May 17th, 2014.

Taking pictures from wedding planning has been a blast but this will be about the only DIY project that I post BEFORE the wedding (Duh! I want there to be surprises for our guests!)

I have seen VERY many posts (Pinterest) that have done a DIY on dying glass jars but none of them have really EXPLAINED the whole process. They always end…”and it’s as simple as that” (or something along those lines). Well…..sometimes it’s really not that simple!!!

From planning to shopping, setting aside time, tips, and encouragement, this will be a step by step DETAILED process. Enjoy! 

1) START COLLECTING JARS EARLY ON. One plus of a long engagement (there’s not many hahah) is that I had about a whole year of collecting. If you don’t have much time, let your family and bridal part know so they can help you. ***I started cooking a LOT of Italian meals with pasta that need sauce*** I collected 61 jars of all shapes and sizes (granted, I bought a dozen of actual Mason jars that were on sale from Walmart)

2) PLAN A CRAFT DAY WITH YOUR BRIDESMAIDS/FRIENDS/FAMILY. I did this way in advance (I actually have a private Facebook group with my bridal party/wedding coordinator) We all can communicate fast and there’s no miscommunication. We set and exact day and time dedicated to just crafts.

3) PLAN TO BUY/GATHER YOUR MATERIALS IN ADVANCE. I used…

  • – Pebeo Vitrea 160 Glossy Glass Paint ,45 Milliliter Bottle, Turquoise (I ended up using 1 bottle for 61 jars) ($9 AMAZON)
  • – Pebeo Vitrea 160 Glass Paint Thinner, 45 Milliliter Bottle (I ended up using 2 bottles for 61 jars) ($9x$2=$18 AMAZON)
  • {I had to purchase these through AMAZON because The Michaels near me did not carry them}
  • – Plenty of old Rags that you are able to throw away afterwards
  • – Plastic Cup/Bowl for Dipping your rag
  • STURDY Plastic Latex Gloves
  • Something to Stir the paint (I used a plastic knife)
  • -Old Newspaper to cover whatever surface you will be using (unless you don’t care about it)
  • – Large Containers for Hot Water to place jars in (help get labels off)
  • – Stove and Pot and/or Teapot to boil Water
  • -Oven for Baking Jars
  • CLEAN towels for drying jars after dishwasher
  • Dishwasher for cleaning jars prior to dying
  • -Baking Sheet to place Jars on in Oven
  • -WD40 ($4) & Firm Scrubbing Brush to take off labels on jars
  • Knife for Scraping Labels
  • -S.O.S. Steel Wool Soap Pads to help scrub labels off
  • -Large Sheet or Towels For Drying and/or storing after dying
  • – 2 Folder Paper Signs Labeled “Baked” & “Unbaked” so you do not get your hard work misplaced

3) SOAK JARS IN BOILING WATER IN CONTAINERS. We are on a tight budget so buying mason jars or even pre-dyed mason jars were out of the question. Trust me, I did research and I think the people that do find good deals are just fortunate. Goodwill and Thrift stores were still overpriced for me. So, I did the extra work and incorporated getting what I needed for our wedding in my meal plan! 2 in 1 BAM! Woohoo!

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You can set them in there the night before or early the morning you are choosing to start the process. Each label is very different and there is no 1 solution that works for all labels to come off. But soaking helped all my labels!

4) START SCRUBBING AND SCRAPING. After the jars had soaked, we sprayed WD40 on them and scrubbed using a firm brush and even those steel pads. Some were tougher than others. I kept the trash can close and a rag nearby to rub off what I had done. My brother had the fabulous idea of using a knife to scrape it off. With all 3 of these methods, we got our total 61 jars taken care of.

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4) ONCE FINISHED, FILL UP THE DISHWASHER WITH ALL YOUR JARS TO REMOVE DIRT & FILM. Our dishwasher takes almost 2 hours so I had to incorporate an entirely different craft while this was taking place

5) DRY YOUR LABEL-FREE JARS COMPLETELY WITH YOUR DRY, CLEAN TOWELS

6) GATHER YOUR JARS TOGETHER, HAVE YOUR MATERIALS READY ON THE TABLE, AND PUT YOUR GLOVES ON

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7) PLACE PEA SIZE PORTION OF YOUR COLOR GLASS PAINT IN A DISPOSABLE BOWL

8) THEN POUR THE THINNER. I ended up using twice as much thinner as the turquoise. Depending on what look you are going for, you can experiment. I thought this part would be the hardest to figure out, but because I was painting such a large amount of jars, I was always able to add more of what I needed.  Out of 61 jars, I have plenty of variation/shades. This did not bother me since it will be a rustic casual wedding and perfection wasn’t the focus.

9) DAB RAG IN BOWL, HOLD JAR AT ANGLE, RUB VERTICALLY IN FAST,DOWNWARD MOTIONS {OUTSIDE OF JAR}.

DSCN0281-001Tips:

  • The paint dries INCREDIBLY fast
  • Do not go in Up and Down directions. This will make it smear
  • Do the trunk of the jar FIRST
  • Then HORIZONTALLY rub the paint near the lip/top of the jar just to get the paint on the jar faster
  • Connect the 2 sections/angles of jar by rubbing THE WHOLE SURFACE of the jar vertically. If you take too long, it will create smudges (this will happen at first, so be patient with yourself, it’s OK)
  • Always use the same spot on your rag with the paint on it for during the wiping process. Smaller rags are best because they don’t hang/drag/get in the way of your work
  • If you mess up horribly (it happens haha), grab a paper napkin/paper towel or another rag, wet it and scrub/wipe off paint. It will come off pretty fast
  • Please note I did not paint the bottom & and you can’t really notice
  • You will ALWAYS be putting on more than you think you are. Less is more. If you are unsure, just place it right next to one of your clear jars

10) ONCE YOU HAVE FINISHED ALL YOUR JARS, PLACE THEM ON OLD TOWELS/SHEETS AND LET THEM DRY FOR 24 HOURS PRIOR TO BAKING. (if you let them sit for longer than 24 hours, that’s totally fine. I had to wait until the next weekend until I had enough time set aside for baking)

11) HAVE ENOUGH ROOM TO HAVE AN “UNBAKED” SIDE FOR JARS AND THEN A “BAKED” SIDE FOR JARS

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11) ONCE THEY HAVE DRIED FOR 24 OR MORE HOURS, PLACE ALL THAT YOU CAN ON 1 BAKING SHEET IN THE OVEN {DO NOT PREHEAT} I placed them close together, but I made sure they were not touching.

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12) CLOSE OVEN AND TURN ON 375 DEGREES F

13) LET BAKE FOR 40 MINUTES AND THEN TURN OFF OVEN

TIPS:

  •    After I turned off the oven, I kept the door shut for 15 minutes.
  •   Then, I left it open for 10 or so minutes
  •    (THIS IS A PROCESS, I did this in between doing other little tasks at home)
  •    AT this point, they were just warm, and so I placed them on the towel on the “baked”   side
  • Any quick change in temperature will break the glass. Please set aside time so you can do this properly. It would be very sad to have all your hard work break because you were in a rush!

You made it. Hopefully this helps. My bridesmaids & and my Mom had a great time doing this together! Now that my jars are baked and waterproof, they are safely stored until Nathan and I’s big day arrives.

OUR GOAL: (AT LEAST SOMEWHERE ALONG THESE LINES)

PICTURE BELOW

I am going for a more simpler look than this. There will be 3 or 4 single creme/blush blooms in each jar for our wedding instead.With of course, doilies underneath.

I won’t share the type of flowers, you will just have to wait for that 🙂

 

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Photography: Elizabeth Messina

 Floral Design + Decor: Mindy Rice

Let me know if you have any questions/comments/tips!!!